He is forever touching and rubbing me, he has the best hands!! Haha I assume the censored comment was "b-o-o-b-s." I don't know why but i think it's funny when guys get fat and they grow a pair, sorry LOL. Show up, love him, give yourself a break, forgive yourself, keep loving him. My 3 girls and I are also very big, like your wife and kids. You can be disappointed and angry and impatient and sad about not feeling horny for your partner, for how your sex life is going, for what your relationship is right now. Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". My youngest, who is 10, weighs 248 lbs, my middle daughter is 12 and 307 lbs, and my oldest is 14 and 382 lbs. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. Thanks for being a roll model . Lucky man. Im no longer physically attracted to him, and I feel horrible about it. I see it as lazy. S** is unbelievable for us. Shell offer seconds or keep sweets around knowing I cant help myself. If it bothers you, you will always be mad atHim for encouraging you to pack on some pounds. Also, you might consider not posting in all capitals. It does!!! I tease him about it sometimes so that he knows I love him no matter the size. The things I've enjoyed, the ups and downs of fat people because I'm fat, and any advice and tips & ideas I've picked up along the way that has helped me and may help you. Don't deny your self just to follow what she wants either. My boyfriend is like the complete physical opposite of me. Being comfortable in a committed relationship is more important than any dress size or pants size to me. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds! Im over 300 pounds now and feel an affinity to any fatty I see. My wife is very fat now I love the curves saggy belly think she is around 380 pounds. A couple of years ago I thought of having gastric bypass surgery but am glad I didn't because it would have ruined my marriage . Me married to a fat lazy guy. 1. They say you dont have to finish it all, which means we have to finish it all. She might be happy if you tell her you dont care if shes skinny. After the pregnancy, her blood sugar normalized, and she's still packing it on. On the days that I need to be on the road, my mother-in-law helps out as my wife is growing too fat to take care of the kids and the house at the same time. He always puts us first and works really hard. I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. My family keeps worrying about my health but i feel great and i'm young so i don't see why i should spend money going to the doctor who'll just tell me to like, go on a diet. Maybe in micronutrient but it won't affect his weight at all. Periodically, we also mention in some of the posts on this site to help serve you better. At 20 I loved my boyfriends hard body. I was at 225 so never thin. I'm afraid he'll think I've been up to something to no good this whole time, when it's mostly just me appreciating his body. Also, put melted butter on everything including pizza (it tastes great!) . I used to suffer from anorexia about 10 years ago. He had never mentioned being into bigger girls before we dated and married. Say yes and gain as much as possible. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: Imperial House, 2nd Floor, 40-42 Queens Road, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 3XB, Taking a break or withdrawing from your course, MPhil Economics/Economic Research Cambridge 2023, Official UCL 2023 Undergraduate Applicants Thread. I keep in shape attending to their needs. A friend of mine who loves to eat and has had a belly most of his adult life recently told me that he was trying to lose weight. One told me, "Yeah, you didn't realize . I would really enjoy my wife gaining weight, but shes a gym rat. My hopes are the same for my girls. I wish and Im fairly certain youd agree that weight didnt have such a cultural significance placed on it. They speak longingly about how fit their husbands were when they first met them and how unfit they are now. Why fight it? Love fat women, they just look so good. Howre you going to do it? She has slowly thickened but its nothing compared to me. Fat isnt always bad. 70 pounds for a 2 year old is about right. My oldest is 10 and around 190lbs and her younger sister who is 8 is about 160lbs. Please, always consult with a Licensed Professional or your Local Doctor for advice if you need to. I just went up to a size 48/30 jeans! I keep myself in shape as I have to take care of my gorgeous huge wife and my plump little darlings. Consider stepping away and saying, "I need a moment after what you just said." Avoid engaging in further conversation until you've stepped away and had some space. I m not so sure its a fetish for everyone. The good news about this is that even though youre less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to him to grow again. . My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. How fat has he ended up?Much prefer a chubbier guy. Just the sight of his boxers folding under his gut or seeing him try on clothes that are now too small for him.. She weighed herself in July and she was 328. He didn't give a real clear reason. She's 381 now; her goal was 375, but when she was 365, she moved her goal to 400. I thought I was the only one with a wife like that. In that case, you probably like the way he is getting fat. Buying him things that are too large helps, and encouraging him to wear sweatpants on weekend so he can eat all he wants but his pants won't be tight. I understand it's a "fetish" but what justifications would you give to particpating or encouraging it? He jokingly calls me fat but I don't let it bother me. I'd been broken up with my on-and-off boyfriend of five years for about three months when I agreed to meet him for dinner. The lesson here is guys, if you want a fat wife find a fat girl who is comfortable in her own skin. I tried this, thinking I would be sneaky and get him just a little fat. ---> Please note that whether or not you choose to order anything from our affiliates, this site is intended to help you achieve a healthier you! Often what attracts us to people is how engaged they are, how ambitious they are, or what they do without us. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. Or when I clean my plate, shell compliment me on doing a good job. Huge sagging belly and t***. Too bad she doesn't want any more kids! . Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. When Having An Affair Is An Act Of Self-Care, Karly & Deb Found A Simple Way Of Making Long Distance Work, Caroline & Nat First Met At A House Party Over A Decade Ago, Get Even More From Bustle Sign Up For The Newsletter. Be honest with yourself and him as to what you desire as well. Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. Sometimes I would require him to keep eating in the bedroom. This is going to take effort, time, and patience, which very much sucks. Keep up the snacks and you might be there someday! Fat but not "holy s***" fat like she is now. Has anyone discussed it with their partner and how do you approach the conversation? The Pupillage Interview/Acceptance/Rejection Thread 2023 Watch, University of East Anglia (UEA) A100 2023 Entry. This 250 lb tub is already gaining. I don't know if he's testing me for my reaction or what. Fortunately she thinks it's adorable, even the fact that I've lost two inches in p**** size and I'm now down to three inches. At first glance you can imagine m. Anonymous. I think it is kind of interesting that my oldest who is 5. weighs almost as much as your 10 year old. Enjoy what you have! When we go out to eat he encourages me to eat more, and when I say I am full he just says, C'mon, just one more bite. So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. They keep me hopping so weight gain is not an issue for me. Mutual gaining is fantastic. By the way I should admit that I like how he looks and the security that he shows in himself. My girlfriend LOVES my fat, too, and it makes it hard to resist her treats, her attention and her obvious obsession with my fat. You need to let her do what makes her feel happy. Eat late. Sounds like someone has never been with a man of substance.. Eat everything in sight and enjoy watching your belly rolls expand. Outstanding! A half year later and she's preggo. I should probably just say to h*** with it and just let them eat and be big and fat. I am fat. Now that Ive become a bit porkier, she seems to be subtly but fully on board with where things are going. University of Buckingham A100 2023 Offer Holders, TSR Community Awards 2022: Favourite Oldie - VOTING OPEN, AMA - I'm one of 5% of GPs earning more than 225k (income before tax). My life is sooo ******* sad, ask me anything. Oh, I'm average height (5 ft 7). an there might be complicantions, and i sure did need a csection cuz that kid was huge-10 lb 14oz. F uck that! She seems to finally be accepting that shes just going to be a little more matronly. I am one too. I try to counter this overwhelming guilt by making healthier foods or encouraging him to go out to the gym with me, but he never commits. And during s**, shes gotten a lot more grabby and seems to be into my widening body. I can't wait to wake up and see my fat beautiful wife every morning and every night we have wonderful s**. Plump is the new normal. No I take partial responsibility. Stay out of discussions you dont belong in. Assistir Fulham X Leeds - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. Its so weird, right? It sounds like your girls are much fatter and gaining weight faster than mine are. I know my wife, who loves to eat too much to worry about how fat she is or will become, really started to pack on the pounds after she became friends with a coworker who is even fatter the she is. Tease him! It was a pretty rough birth as our daughter was very large, almost 12lbs so a c-section was performed. That was a little over a year ago and now I have a 520lb wife and a 2 little girls that very much take after their mom. Trust me, she knows she has put on weight. My wife is the same way. But I do plan on fattening him up after the wedding date to keep other ladies away. Women are affected terribly by body dysmorphia issues because our culture makes them hate there bodies. Copyright The Student Room 2023 all rights reserved. Most would hate it, but some would like it. As they widen and bulge they advertise their greed and indulgence to the world. Have you been gaining any weight? He's grown out of some of his clothes, he's got a noticeable double chin, he has a round belly, chubby cheeks, even his chest is softening up. I'm retired! The man I love has put on a little weight. Not super tall, but a tallish guy. Visualize something positive in your life, rather than focusing on what your husband just said. I could do with some now actually! I have always been chubby or more which he loves. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. When you were singles seeking a mate, you knew you needed to maintain your appeal . She says she feel perfectly fine, and won't go back to the doctor unless she doesn't feel well. He has put on nearly 250 pounds, and I intend to keep getting him even fatter! Well more and more breaks now as he loses his breath pretty easy now. I've been with my hubby for 15 years now, second marriage for both of us. No one is encouraging me/I don't want to become fat. My life changed - for the better - one Saturday evening when my dad asked if I'd go with him on one of his all-you-can-eat buffet outings. His body is alive! When I met my bf, I was 24, slightly overweight, and had all the curves in the right places. I tell him he's gorgeous and perfect. He is 62 and I'm 51. skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. Its only been 20 pounds. It isn't an uncontrollable . It turns him on but Im just tolerating it. I'm enjoying this immensely of course, with the added bonus that he has started to become affected by his own cooking and add some pounds himself. I love grabbing a handful of flesh when we've having sex, and seeing that big round hairy mountain when I look up at him when I'm giving him a BJ. I want to tell him, confess how I love his body, and I don't want him to starve himself. He loves to play with her belly rolls. One solid inch up several not-so-firm inches out. Cookie Notice Id love to be big as a cow but have work and life demands that keep me in check. I got back into my seat, sat up straight, and looked directly at Jonathan. Couldn't keep my hands off her. Definitely a large and in charge dude! My comment is perfectly valid. I said I didn't want her to have it that she looked beautiful. I'm 288 pounds at 5'8 now. Im the bloated one. I should be able to push her way up over 600lbs in the next year. I wouldn't mind if he did . 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